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President's Column by President Amy Gerstein

A Seat at the Table: Reflections on Leadership and Community
May/June 2025

As I write my final Builder column as your congregation president, I am filled with gratitude. This role has been challenging at times, but above all, it has been deeply rewarding. Beth Am has meant so much to my family, and I will always cherish the opportunity to give back.

Looking back at my past columns, High Holy Day remarks, and Annual Meeting speeches has been both enlightening and humbling. There were moments I wished I had expressed myself more clearly, but a central theme emerged: the power and importance of community. And the more I reflected, the more I kept returning to the image of a table.

Tables are where we gather — not just to eat, but to share, debate, celebrate, and support one another. In our homes, at Beth Am, and throughout Jewish tradition, the table represents connection and hospitality. The ancient Temple in Jerusalem held many sacred objects, but one of them was simply a table — a reminder that gathering and sustenance, both physical and spiritual, are central to who we are.
What makes a table special is its ability to expand. At a Passover seder, we stretch our tables to make room for everyone. At Beth Am, we do the same — not just physically, but in how we create space for people of all backgrounds and experiences. If you have ever felt on the margins, unsure of your place, please know this: the table at Beth Am is always open to you.

Looking Back: What We Have Built Together
Over the past few years, we have strengthened Beth Am in ways both visible and unseen. Through initiatives like the Beth Am Groups Group (BAGG) and our four pillars — Worship & Spiritual Living, Lifelong Learning, Caring & Welcoming Community, and the Pursuit of Justice — we have built meaningful pathways for connection.

We have expanded our social justice work, focusing on early childhood education, climate action, and community organizing. Our partnerships with local organizations have allowed us to make a real impact beyond our walls.

At the same time, we have worked to enhance trust, transparency, and communication, ensuring that Beth Am remains a place where every voice matters.

Looking Ahead: Continuing the Journey
The work of building community never ends. Programs like One Book, One Congregation spark meaningful dialogue, while our congregational trips deepen learning and connection. Our Four Pillars provide a framework for our programs and our more than 100 groups. We have more work to do to make sure each member who would like to participate in our collective experience can find a way. 

We also recognize the complexity of this moment. The war in Israel has left many of us grappling with deep emotions — holding both love for our Jewish homeland and sorrow for all those suffering. Our tradition teaches us to hold multiple truths at once, to engage with nuance, and to act with compassion and conviction. Beth Am will always be a place where we navigate these complexities together.

A Final Reflection
As I step away from this leadership role, I am deeply grateful to our clergy, staff, Board, and — most of all — to each of you. Beth Am is a place of light, warmth, and blessing. May we continue to nurture it, show up for one another, and keep expanding our table.

Thank you for allowing me to be part of this journey. I look forward to continuing it with you — just from a different seat at the table.


president@betham.org

Wed, April 30 2025 2 Iyar 5785